Built for change, not just coping

Surviving the Workplace Jungle, our first program, helps you transcend “difficult” or toxic work situations.

“There’s nothing else around like this.” 

Surviving the Workplace Jungle

Stress at work is normal. Work distress is not. 

This is the support you need, to move through “difficult” or toxic work situations with agency.
In-depth resources, thoughtful exercises, and transformative sessions grounded in research, lived experience and trust.
Feel truly supported, make meaningful progress with resilience, insight, and skill.
“When something happens at work we always come back to ‘what could I have done differently’. But this helps you understand what you’re up against and how to navigate it vs. fixating on what you could have done.” 
A note from us
Hi,
I'm Subarna, the founder.
After building in behavioral health, navigating support for myself, and seeing the journeys of loved ones, I know that when people hit a really hard patch, the “right” support can be a hit or miss. People may find advice, therapy, coaching, or peer support—but still struggle to address the full experience and move forward systematically.
Work is a great example. My career’s taken me through software engineering, strategy consulting and leading products at Silicon Valley startups. Throughout, I saw and experienced how people who pull off enormously complex work, can be blindsided by “difficult” and toxic behaviors and situations. I dug into the research and talked to many people. The toll is serious but the “right” support is hard to find. There’s no shortage of advice and inspirational content. What’s harder to find is reliable whole-person support to help you understand what’s happening, and build resilience and skills to recover your footing with a strategy that fits real life.
I’m building Tonik because people deserve the “right” support when life throws them a curve ball – in-depth, research-backed, and in the format that's most helpful. Surviving the Workplace Jungle is where we begin.
If you’re wondering whether this is right for you, you don't have to figure that out yet. Just submit the quick form below and we’ll invite you to a quick chat about how it works. And take it from there if it’s a good mutual fit.
Warmly,

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Work distress is complex.

Work is a double-edged sword. It can be deeply fulfilling but distress from "difficult" or toxic situations and behaviors can do real damage – even if we think it's normal.

It can feel confusing, unfair, or worse, leaving you drained and second-guessing yourself.

"What's going on?"

“Is this annoying — or toxic? Am I overreacting — or under-responding?” 

“Where do I go from here?”

It takes a toll — on your confidence, quality of life, and even the ability to think clearly.

And "icky” feelings and nagging anxiety can be hard to shake off even after you've moved on.

“People are not really taught to talk about work or to deal with difficult situations. This was more grounding than anything else I’ve done before.”

“It was wonderfully affirmative and made me confident and optimistic and feel less of a victim.”

The right support is missing …

We white-knuckle through it alone — it makes it worse. 

Talking to friends and family helps, until it doesn't. Workshops, and drop-in groups offer a flicker of hope. But meaningful shifts take depth.

It's hard to know where to turn. A therapist? A coach? Peer groups? Community? Support can be hit or miss. 

Unburdening yourself to someone feels good. But if it – doesn’t track with your experience or isn’t in-depth or evidence-based – relief fades quickly or the cycle repeats.

“It made me confident and optimistic. Understanding the emotional aspect of practical things and acknowledging issues and their complexity was very grounding.” 

“It was real and honest but safe. The discussion was real, transparent and vulnerable – there was no pressure to perform, network or mentor.”

We are building support as it should be

Specialized
Built ground-up for work related issues  

In-depth insights and techniques
From workplace research, psychology, behavioral science, neuroscience and practical experience 

Curated resources
Conveniently accessible

Personalized exercises
Align support to your goals and needs

Facilitated sessions that surpass 1:1 support  
Expertly facilitated reflections and breakthroughs with a small vetted group that’s going through a similar experience  

In just eight weeks, feel lighter, build yourself back up, and learn to tackle curveballs intuitively with skills, tact and a strategic mindset

“I was able to understand practical issues much better and see different paths out of the same situation. It gave me a lot of clarity to navigate my issues.”

“The homework, discussion and practical skills made it even better. I really liked the sessions. And the facilitation was much better than regular peer support groups. The group perspectives were very helpful.”

“Shifting to a framework felt very comfortable, safe and productive.I liked the structure.”

A robust model for success

Perspectives
Make sense of your experience with the right vocabulary and data. See things for what they are, not a personal failing. Exhale.

Physiology
Understand your stress response, regulate it. Build reserves like sleep. With an arsenal of techniques for steady thoughts, emotions, and energy.

Psychology
Build a solid foundation with self-compassion, self-trust, and confidence. Learn ways to hold your own in challenging scenarios – without losing sight of complexity. If circumstances can’t change – minimize the drain with versatile methods.

Practical issues
Avoid friction and common traps. Protect yourself proactively. Assess your situation comprehensively. Confront hard truths. Tackle challenging scenarios with tact. Develop strategy optimal for your situation. If change is on the cards, explore the road ahead. Reflect on what you learned, clarify your next steps.

“I really enjoyed the reading. Curation was a big part of the experience.” 

“The insights on regulation upfront, and the techniques were great.” 

The right group is transformative 

Research shows that small, vetted, and expertly facilitated groups can be more helpful than 1-1 support[1]

They foster validation, adaptive coping, and accelerated cognitive and emotional shifts – unlocking progress that takes much longer, if at all. 

Feeling seen and supported, supporting others, and diverse perspectives are incredibly helpful. You’ll feel confident, less alone, test your thinking, and learn from thoughtful people. 

What if I don’t feel like sharing?

You don’t have to. People are surprised by how much they get from simply listening. You’ll never be pushed to share more than you want.

“I really liked the group's perspectives. The facilitation was much better than regular groups.”

“Having other people’s experience to draw on was very helpful. It got me out of my sense of shame. Hearing stories of people who picked themselves up was really inspiring.”

“The communal aspect was really meaningful. I got to connect with intellectual high achieving peers I’d never meet otherwise. I’ve never had a group of peers I could share stuff with that they’d understand. It’s hard to find this anywhere else.”

Did you know?

71% of Americans have had a toxic boss
Women are 41% more likely to experience toxicity
76% of people in toxic workplaces report mental health impact
1 in 4 people dread going to work[2]
22% were harassed at work in 2023 vs. 14% in 2022[3]
22% experience mental health harm due to work[3]
71% have had a toxic boss[4]
52% in toxic workplaces report mental health impact[3]
33% of bullies are women, and far more likely to target women[6]

The fallout

reactivity . shut down . low confidence . unhealthy coping . impaired careers health and relationships . burnout . anxiety . depression . migraines . shame . PTSD . cardiovascular and immune disorders … or worse.

Disclaimer

This program is for educational and informational purposes only. The content and participation in the group sessions do not constitute or substitute for psychotherapy, medical advice, mental health treatment, or any other professional healthcare service. Facilitators are not acting in any capacity as a licensed mental health or medical provider in this group, and no provider-client relationship is established. Facilitation isn’t covered by licensure even if facilitators are licensed. The program doesn’t diagnose or treat a physical or mental illness. If you are in need of mental health treatment or crisis support, please seek care from a healthcare service offered by a qualified healthcare professional.

Footnotes

1. Yalom, I.D. & Leszcz, M. (2020). Burlingame, G.M., et al. (2004)
2. SHRM, 2019
3. APA, 2023
4. Harris Poll, 2023
5. MIT, 2023
6. WBI